Here’s the thing, being a fan girl
isn’t always about being crazy and being overly obsessed and possessive… I
understand how you feel about your biases and favorite groups but definitely I don’t know why some would spend thousands of money just for their kpop idols, exception
for those who are rich kids but still there are better things than that, right?
I mean you don’t get any benefits aside from meeting them and screaming until
you lose your voice… they always get the money…they get profit… soooo… you lose
some and they earn a lot.
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| My favorite entertainment |
I am not a hater. I am a FAN as
well. It’s just that I’m a different kind of fan. I am the practical kind of
fan. I’d rather save my money for other things like for school projects, food, and
my daily necessities and for my FUTURE. I’m the kind of fan who downloads songs
for free and find many ways to check out on my biases and favorite groups through the magical world of INTERNET. I am not going to waste my money in digital
downloads, albums, CDs, posters, other kpop merchandise and most of all
concerts but if I got the chance or I was blessed to have an opportunity to
attend…why not?
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| ^^ one of my favorite bias |
Now, let’s focus on the things
I don't like, I don't like fan girls who are obsessed and overly possessive towards their
biases. The thoughts I always have in my
mind when I encounter this kind of girls are: “Girl! He doesn’t even know you!”,
“I know you’re a fan but you don’t own HIM.”, “Why are you crying?” (This
specific thought is always hanging around my mind whenever I see a fan girl cry.)
, “Why act like he’s your boyfriend?” (I do that sometimes but NOT to the point
of arguing and fighting other girls and I know that it’s just a dream and there’s
only 0.00000000000…1% that it will happen) and other thoughts that could appear
in my head. It’s fine to scream but when it’s only necessary… You still have to
choose the place you’re going to spazz about your bias. Sometimes I get
influenced because who wouldn’t be? Especially if you’re surrounded by your own
kind but I always slap myself into reality and I always tell myself that I’m
not a screaming hyena (I don’t know what I just said.)
Anyways, we all have different characteristics
and personalities. We can’t change anyone to our liking and we can’t push what
we want them to do. Just remember being a fan isn’t measured on how many
merchandise, concerts, events and information you have. You can be a fan by
simply supporting through little things like commenting positively, avoiding
fan wars, avoiding commenting negatively on other fandoms, helping in raising
their views in YT, online votes or maybe supporting them through your talent. There
so many possibilities…
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